On the manner of negotiating with princes: On the uses of diplomacy; the choice of ministers and envoys; and the personal qualities necessary for success in missions abroadCallières, Monsieur de (François)
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On the manner of negotiating with princes: On the uses of diplomacy; the choice of ministers and envoys; and the personal qualities necessary for success in missions abroad
Callières, Monsieur de (François)
Ambassadors; Diplomacy; Negotiation; Princes
Every right-minded man desires to stand well in the eyes of those with
whom he transacts business, and therefore he will give some trouble to
all those devices for securing the good-will of men to which I have
referred. If he finds in the course of his work that the prince himself
or any one of his ministers is ill-disposed towards him or intractable
in discussion, he must not on that account allow himself to imitate the
fault, but must redouble his efforts in the contrary direction. Indeed
he must behave as a good watchmaker would when his clock has gone out
of order: he must labour to remove the difficulty, or at all events to
circumvent its results. He must not be led aside by his own feelings.
Prejudice is a great misinterpreter’s house in all public affairs.
[Sidenote: _A High Ideal._]
It might seem that the ideal which I now set up for the negotiator is
one too high for any man to reach. It is true that no man can ever
carry out his instructions without a fault, but unless he has before
him an ideal as a guide he will find himself plunged in the midst of
distracting affairs without any rule for his own conduct. Therefore I
place before him these considerations: that despite all disappointments
and exasperations he must act with _sang-froid_; he must work with
patience to remove all obstacles that lie in his path, whether they are
placed there by accident or act of God or by the evil design of men; he
must preserve a calm and resolute mind when the conjunctures of events
seem to conspire against him; and finally, he must remember that if
once he permit his own personal or outrageous feelings to guide his
conduct in negotiation he is on the sure and straight road to disaster.
In a word, when events and men are unkind he must never despair of
being able to change them, nor again when they smile upon his efforts
must he cherish the illusion that their good favour will endure for
ever.
[Sidenote: _The Negotiator’s Twofold Function._]
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