In the conversation I quoted the women were on the whole the radicals,
the men on the whole the conservatives. This alignment was far from
typical, I think, and yet in contemporaneous life, whether or not
in opinion, women have been the exponents of cultural change in sex
relations. The increase in the divorce rate, it seems probable, has
been effected predominantly by women; about two-thirds of the total
number of divorces are granted to women. (Of course the tradition that
it is decent for the man to let the woman get the divorce must not be
ignored in this connection.) This increase in divorce may indicate a
changing attitude toward the criteria of marriage on the part of women.
Women may be demanding more of marriage than in the day when they had
little to expect but marriage. In other words, marriage standards mount
as marriage has other relations to compete with. At any rate in the
talk of women it seems to me that desire for integral satisfaction
in marriage is more consciously or realistically expressed than ever
before. Emotional and sexual appeasements are considered as well as
social or economic advantage. What of the part played by women in
changes in sex relations outside marriage?
Unfortunately, we have no dependable statistics of prostitution, but
whatever decrease there has been in prostitution, and opinion is that
with the passing of segregated districts there has been a decrease,
may be, on the whole, put down to women, if only indirectly through an
increase in illicit relations. Illicit relations are not subject to
statistics, but that there has been an increase in them in this country
in this century will be generally accepted, likewise that in this, too,
the increase is due to women, alike more willing to participate in such
relations and more tolerant of them in others. Again those curious
suits for alienation of affection appear to be brought against women
as much as against men; and theories of seduction by men have long
since been sounding archaic to our ears. Even on the screen, the great
present vehicle of traditional manners and morals, although rape is
always in order, seduction is infrequent. Seduction with its complement
of marital honor has been rendered an anachronism, through women.
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