Our present age, counting the incredible advance of the last century
and the swift fruition of these immediate years, shows among its
newly distinguishing social movements one of supreme importance.
Within a hundred years women, in most civilized countries, have moved
from domestic into social relationship. Such a sudden and enormous
change, while inherently for the improvement of society, is naturally
accompanied by much local and immediate dislocation in previously
accepted conditions. Many are alarmed at what is considered “the danger
to the home” resultant from the refusal of an increasing number of
women to spend their lives as house-servants; they fear “the menace to
the family” due to similarly increasing numbers of women who refuse
compulsory motherhood; they are shocked at a looseness, even grossness,
of behavior between the sexes which seems to threaten marriage
itself. Few seem able to look beyond the present inconveniences to a
specialized efficiency in household management which will raise the
standard of public health and private comfort, with large reduction
in the cost of living; to such general improvement in child-culture
as will lift the average of citizenship and lower the death-rate
appreciably; and to a rational and permanent basis for our monogamous
marriage.
To understand rightly this trying period, to be patient with its
unavoidable reactions and excesses, to know what tendencies to approve
and promote and what to condemn and oppose, requires some practical
knowledge of biology and sociology. Men, though as yet beyond women
in social morality, are unreliable judges in this time of change
because their ox is gored--they are the ones who are losing a cherished
possession. The overdeveloped sex instinct of men, requiring more
than women were willing to give, has previously backed its demands
by an imposing array of civil and religious laws requiring feminine
submission, has not scrupled to use force or falsehood, and held final
power through the economic dependence of women. It is easy to see that
if women had been equally willing no such tremendous machinery of
compulsion need have been evolved.
But now that the woman no longer admits that “he shall rule over her,”
and is able to modify the laws; now that she has become braver, and
above all is attaining financial freedom, her previous master has no
hold upon her beyond natural attraction and--persuasion. Toward this
end he manifests an instant and vigorous activity. Whereas in the past
women were taught that they had no such “imperative instincts” as men,
and the wooer, even the husband, sought to preserve this impression,
now it is quite otherwise. All that elaborate theory of feminine
chastity, that worship of virginity, goes by the board, and women are
given a reversed theory--that they are just the same as men, if not
more so; our “double standard” is undoubled and ironed flat--to the
level of masculine desire.
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