“The chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever”; and
that being so, it is the task of those who are a little more serious
than the serious to set about discovering the principles of glory
and enjoyment in life. And--I am setting down a truism--the main
principle of enjoyment for the human race is not art, nor thought, nor
the practice of virtue, but for man, woman, and for woman, man. The
exchange of happiness between the sexes is not only the creative agent
in human life, perpetuating it; it is also the thing which gives the
perpetuation of life its chief meaning. People have always felt this
vaguely; it has made labor endurable to them; but hardly ever have they
recognized it clearly, and to the poets and artists who know it they
have always responded a little skeptically. They have thought of love
as a justification a little too materialistic for life; but love is
only materialistic when it is regarded as a means.
To accept men and women as ends in themselves, to enter into their
life as one of them, is to partake of absolute life, that life which
at every moment realizes itself, existing for its own sake. We cannot
live in that life continuously; for the accomplishment of the intricate
purposes of society we must at certain times and with part of our
minds regard our fellow-creatures as instruments; but the more we tend
to do so the more we banish joy from life. Life does not consist,
whatever the utilitarians may say, in functioning, but in living; and
life comes into being where men and women, not as functions, but
as self-constituted entities, intersect. This is the state which in
religion as well as art has been called life; this is the final life
of the earth, beyond which there is no other. We may accept it or pass
it by; but whatever we may do with it, it is our chief end, giving
meaning to the multitudinous pains of humanity. This commerce between
men and women is not merely sexual, in the narrow sense which we have
given the word; it involves every human joy, all the thoughts and
aspirations of mankind stretching into infinity. It is the thing which
has inspired all great artists, mystical as well as earthy. It is the
point of reference for any morality which is not a disguised kind of
adaptation; for virtue consists in the capacity to partake freely of
human happiness. All reform, all economic and political theory has a
meaning in so far as it makes for this; and that was recognized by the
first reformers, the utopians who had not yet become mere specialists
in reform.
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