It seems to me most unfortunate that the majority of people hope to
improve matters through an extension of the feminine ideals of the
past. In the established scheme of things one finds a peculiarly gross
form of immorality, an immorality incommensurably greater than the
dreaded evil of promiscuity; and it is only as an element in this total
scheme that woman’s ideals have any significance. The fact that they
have always constituted one side of a “double standard” is not merely
something which may be said about their relation to other elements
after their essential characteristics have been considered. These
characteristics can be described only in terms of the double standard
and of its attendant evils. It would be as impossible, then, to destroy
the double standard and still keep the feminine ideal intact as it
would be to preserve the convex nature of a mathematical curve while
destroying the concave. According to the present system there is a
standard of conduct set up for women which is to constitute virtue.
This standard is a combination of specific positive commands and, more
especially, of specific prohibitions. There are certain things which
no nice woman will do--a great many things, in fact. She must learn
them by heart and accept them on faith as the Pythagoreans must have
had to learn their curious list of taboos, a list running from the
taboo against eating beans to that against sitting on a quart measure.
This ideal of virtue does not apply with equal rigidity to men; quite
different things are expected of them and accepted for them. It is
obvious that two such conflicting ideals by the very nature of their
combination will produce a class of women who do not live up to the
standard of virtue set them as members of their sex. This class is not
merely an excrescence but an integral part of the situation created by
the total sex ideal of society. The function of women of this class is
to make possible for men the way of life commonly considered as suited
to their sex and to make possible a virtuous life for the remainder of
womankind. In fulfilling this function such women lose, in the eyes of
society, their moral nature and forfeit the right to live within the
pale of social morality. They are considered unfit for normal social
intercourse and are denied those relationships and responsibilities
which ordinarily serve as the basis for moral growth. From all normal
responsibility toward them society regards itself as released. That
which is personal, the inner life, the character, the soul--whatever
one prefers to call it--having been sacrificed in the service of the
social scheme, one is to treat what is left as of no value in itself,
but merely as an instrument to be used in the service of man’s pleasure
or woman’s virtue. The prostitute is to society that one thing, defined
by the purpose which she serves, and that is all she is, all she is
allowed to be. The depersonalization, the moral non-existence, one
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