Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
What part does Discipline play in your system of education? We should
hail the query as manifesting a cheering degree of interest if we were
not quite sure that our interlocutor uses discipline as a euphuism
for punishment. That conviction puts one’s mind into the attitude
of protest. In the first place, we have no system of education. We
hold that great things, such as nature, life, education are “cabined,
cribbed, confined” in proportion as they are systematised. We have a
_method_ of education, it is true, but method is no more than a way to
an end and is free, yielding, adaptive as Nature herself. Method has
a few comprehensive laws according to which details shape themselves,
as one naturally shapes one’s behaviour to the acknowledged law that
fire burns. System, on the contrary, has an infinity of rules and
instructions as to what you are to do and how you are to do it. Method
in education follows Nature humbly, stands aside and gives her fair
play.
System leads Nature: assists, supplements, rushes in to undertake
those very tasks which Nature has made her own since the world was.
Does Nature endow every young thing, child or kitten, with a wonderful
capacity for inventive play? Nay, but, says System, I can help here; I
will invent games for the child and help his plays, and make more use
of this power of his than unaided Nature knows how. So Dame System
teaches the child to play, and he enjoys it; but, alas, there is no
play in him, no initiative, when he is left to himself; and so on all
along the lines. System is fussy and zealous and produces enormous
results--in the teacher! Method pursues a “wise passiveness.” You
watch the teacher and are hardly aware that he is doing anything. The
children take the initiative, but, somehow, the result here is in these
and not in the teacher. They develop, become daily more and more of
persons, with
“The reason firm, the temperate will,
Endurance, foresight, strength, and skill.”
Such as these are the golden fruits which ripen under the eyes of the
parent who is wise to discriminate between the _rôle_ of nature and
that of the educator, who follows sympathetically and dutifully the
lead of the great mother.
“Oh, then you have no discipline. I thought not. I daresay it would
answer very well to leave children to themselves and make them happy.
Children are always good when they are happy, are they not?” Not so
fast, dear reader. He who would follow a great leader must needs
endeavour himself, _Ohne Hast ohne Rast_, and the divine lead which
we call Nature is infinitely blessed in the following, but steep to
tread and hard to find and by no means to be confounded with leisurely
strolling in ways of our own devising.
The parent who would educate his children, in any large sense of the
word, must lay himself out for high thinking and lowly living; the
highest thinking indeed possible to the human mind and the simplest,
directest living.
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