Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Susie is an inquisitive little girl. Her mother is surprised and
not always delighted to find that the little maid is constantly on
voyages of discovery, which the servants speak of to each other as
prying and poking. Is her mother engaged in talk with a visitor or
the nurse--behold, Susie is at her side, sprung from nobody knows
where. Is a confidential letter being read aloud--Susie is within
earshot. Does the mother think she has put away a certain book where
the children cannot find it--Susie volunteers to produce it. Does she
tell her husband that cook has asked for two days leave of absence--up
jumps Susie, with all the ins and outs of the case. “I really don’t
know what to do with the child. It is difficult to put down one’s foot
and say you ought not to know this or that or the other. Each thing
in itself is harmless enough, but it is a little distressing to have
a child who is always peering about for gossipy information.” Yes,
it is tiresome, but is not a case for despair, nor for thinking hard
things of Susie, certainly not for accepting the inevitable. Regarding
this tiresome curiosity as the defect of its quality, the mother casts
about for the quality, and, behold, Susie is reinstated. What ails the
child is an inordinate desire for knowledge, run to seed, and allowed
to spend itself on unworthy objects. When the right moment comes,
introduce Susie to some delightful study, of Nature, for example, which
will employ all her prying proclivities. Once the new idea has taken
possession of the little girl, a little talk should follow about the
unworthiness of filling one’s thoughts with trifling matters so that
nothing really interesting can get in. For weeks together see that
Susie’s mind is too full of large matters to entertain the small ones;
and, once the inquisitive habit has been checked, encourage the child’s
active mind to definite progressive work on things worth while. Susie’s
unworthy curiosity will soon cease to be a trial to her parents.
CHAPTER XVII
_SENSATIONS AND FEELINGS_
PART I
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