Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Every feeling has its positive and its negative, and these in almost
infinitely varying degrees: pleasure, displeasure; appreciation,
depreciation; anticipation, foreboding; admiration, contempt;
assurance, hesitancy; diffidence, complacency; and so on through
many more delicate _nuances_ of feeling that are nameable, and yet
more so delicate that language is too rough an instrument for their
expression. It will be observed that all these feelings have certain
conditions in common; none are distinctly moral or immoral; they have
not arrived at the stage of definite thought; they exist vaguely in
what would appear to be a semi-conscious intellectual region. Why then
need we concern ourselves about this little known tract of that _terra
incognita_ which we call human nature? This “why” is the question
of the prose-philosopher--our poet sees deeper. In one of the most
exquisitely discriminating passages in the whole field of poetry,
he speaks of feelings of unremembered pleasure as having no slight
or trivial influence on a good man’s life, as the source of “little
nameless unremembered acts of kindness and of love.” Even the feeling
of “_unremembered_ pleasure”--for it is possible to have the spring of
association touched so lightly that one recovers the feeling of former
pleasure without recovering the sensation, or the image which produced
the sensation, but merely just the vague feeling of the pleasure, as
when one hears the word ‘Lohengrin’ and does not wait, as it were,
to recover the sensation of musical delight, but just catches a waft
of the pleasure which the sensation brought--intangible, indefinite
as they are, produce that glow of the heart which warms a good man
to “acts of kindness and of love,” as little, as nameless, and as
unremembered as the feelings out of which they spring.
Nameless as they are, our poet does not hesitate to rank these trifling
acts as the “best portion of a good man’s life.” But it is only out
of the good man’s heart that these good issues come, because, as we
have said, the feelings are not in themselves moral, they act upon
that which is there, and the point brought before us is, that the
influence of the feelings is equally powerful and indirect. Why should
the recollection of Tintern Abbey cause a good man to do some little
kind thing? We can only give the ultimate answer that “God has made us
so,” that a feeling of even unremembered pleasure prompts the good man
to give forth out of the good treasure of his heart in kindness and in
love. We have but to think of the outcome of feelings at the negative
pole to convince us of the nice exactitude of the poet’s psychology. We
are not exactly displeased, but unpleased, dull, not quickened by any
feeling of pleasure: let us ask ourselves if, in this condition of our
feelings, we are prompted to any outpouring of love and kindness upon
our neighbours.
Here is another aspect of the feelings of very great importance to us
who have the education of children.
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