Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
of his imagination will still work within our narrow limits upon our
poor tasks, and every bit of our narrow living is played over with a
thousand variations, apt to be more vivid and interesting than the poor
facts, and, therefore, more likely to remain with the child as the
facts which he will produce when required to speak the truth. What is
the cure? Give the child free entrance into, abundant joyous living in,
the kingdom of make-believe. Let him people every glen with fairies,
every island with Crusoes. Let him gift every bird and beast with human
interests, which he will share when the dear fairy godmother arrives
with an introduction. Let us be glad and rejoice that all things are
possible to the children, recognising in this condition of theirs their
fitness to receive and believe and understand, as, alas! we cannot do,
the things of the Kingdom of God. The age of faith is a great sowing
time, doubtless designed, in the Divine scheme of things, especially
that parents may make their children at home in the things of the
Spirit before contact with the world shall have materialised them.
At the same time the more imaginative the child, the more essential is
it that the boundaries of the kingdom of make-believe should be clearly
defined, and exact truthfulness insisted upon in all that concerns
the narrower world where the grown-ups live. It is simply a matter
of careful education; daily lessons in exact statement, without any
horror or righteous indignation about misstatements, but warm, loving
encouragement to the child who gives a long message quite accurately,
who tells you just what Miss Brown said and no more, just what happened
at Harry’s party, without any garnish. Every day affords scope for a
dozen little lessons at least, and, gradually, the more severe beauty
of truth will dawn upon the child whose soul is already possessed by
the grace of fiction.
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