Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Equally strong, equally natural, equally sure of awakening a responsive
stir in the young soul, is the divinely implanted principle of
curiosity. The child _wants to know_: wants to know incessantly,
desperately; asks all manner of questions about everything he comes
across, plagues his elders and betters, and is told not to bother, and
to be a good boy and not ask questions. But this only sometimes. For
the most part we lay ourselves out to answer Tommy’s questions so far
as we are able, and are sadly ashamed that we are so soon floored by
his insatiable curiosity about natural objects and phenomena. Tommy has
his reward. The most surprising educational feat accomplished amongst
us is the amount of knowledge, about everything within his range, which
Tommy has acquired by the end of his sixth year. “Why, he knows as much
as I do, about”--this, and that, and the other, says his astonished
and admiring father. Take him to the seaside, and in a week he will
tell you all about trawling and mackerel fishing; the ways of the
fisher-folk, and all that his inquisitive mind can find out unaided.
He would tell all about sand, and shells, and tides, and waves, only,
poor little boy, he must have help towards this manner of knowledge,
and there is no one to give it to him. However, he finds out all that
he can about all that he sees and hears, and does amass a surprising
amount of exact knowledge about things and their properties.
When Tommy goes to school, his parents find themselves relieved of the
inconvenience of his incessant Why? They are probably so well pleased
to be let off that it does not occur to them to ask themselves Why
Tommy no longer wonders Why? Up to this period nature has been active.
She has been allowed to stimulate that one of his desires most proper
to minister to his mental growth, just as, if let alone, she would give
him that hearty appetite which should promote his physical growth.
She has it all her own way. The desire of knowledge is that spring of
action most operative in Tommy’s childhood. But he goes to school.
Knowledge is a pure delight to Tommy. Let his lessons approach him on
the lines of his nature--not on the lines proper for certain subjects
of instruction--and the little boy has no choice. He cannot help
learning and loving to learn, “‘cos ’tis his nature to.”
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