Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
This, of presenting knowledge to Tommy on the lines of his nature, is,
however, a difficult and delicate task. Not every schoolmaster, any
more than every parent, is keen to give Tommy what he wants in this
matter of needful knowledge. So, once upon a time, let us suppose,
there arose a pedagogue to whom was discovered a new and easier way.
The morning had seen the poor man badly baffled by the queries of
boys who _wanted to know_. How was a man, who had pretty well done
with fresh studies for his own part, to keep up with these eager
intelligences. In a vision of the night it is disclosed to Cognitus
that there is another and an easier way. The desire of knowledge is not
the only desire active in the young bosom. Just as much as he wants to
know, he wants to excel, to do better than the rest. “Every soul of
them wants to be first in one way or another--first in games, if not
in class.” Now, Cognitus was a philosopher; he knew that, as a rule,
but one desire is supremely active at one time in the breast of boy
or man. Kindle their emulation, and all must needs do the same thing
in the same way to see who can do it best. The boys will no longer
_want to know_; they will get their due share of learning in regular
ways, and really get on better than if they were moved by the restless
spirit of inquiry. _Eureka!_ A discovery; honour and renown for master
and boys,--no need for cane or imposition, for emulation is the best
of all disciplinarians,--and steady-going, quiet work, without any
of the fatiguing excursions into new fields to which the craving for
knowledge leads. “How pleased the parents will be, too,” says Cognitus,
for he knows that paternal love, now and then, looks for a little
sustenance from paternal vanity, that the child who does well is dear.
Nay, who knows but the far-seeing Cognitus beheld, as in a vision, the
scholarships and money awards which should help to fill the pocket of
Paternus, or should, any way, lessen the drain thereupon. Here, indeed,
is a better way, upon which Paternus and Cognitus may well consent to
walk together. Every one is happy, every one content, nobody worried,
a great deal of learning got in. What would you have more? Just one
thing, honoured Cognitus, that keen desire for knowledge, that same
incessant Why? with which Tommy went to school, and which should
have kept him inquisitive about all things good and great and wise
throughout the years given to him wherein to lay the groundwork of
character, the years of his youth.
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