Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
But the children of the cultured classes--why, surely their danger
is rather to live too much in realms of fancy. A single sentence in
lesson or talk, the slightest sketch of an historical character, and
they will play at it for a week, inventing endless incidents. Like
Tennyson, when he was a child, they will carry on the story of the
siege and defence of a castle (represented by a mound, with sticks for
its garrison) for weeks together, and a child engrossed with these
larger interests feels a sensible loss of dignity when he flaps his
wings as a pigeon or skips about as a lamb, though, no doubt, he will
do these things with pleasure for the teacher he loves. Imagination is
ravenous for food, not pining for culture, in the children of educated
parents, and education need not concern herself directly, for them,
with the development of the conceptive powers. Then with regard to the
cultivated child’s reasoning powers, most parents have had experiences
of this kind--Tommy is five. His mother had occasion to talk to
him about the Atlantic Cable, and said she did not know how it was
insulated; Tommy remarked next morning that he had been thinking about
it, and perhaps the water itself was an insulator. So far from needing
to develop their children’s reasoning powers, most parents say--“Oh,
wad the gods the giftie gie us”--to answer the everlasting ‘why’ of the
intelligent child.
In a word, to develop the child’s so-called faculties is the main work
of education when _ignorant_ or otherwise _deficient_ children are
concerned; but the children of educated people are never _ignorant_
in this sense. They awake to the world all agog for knowledge, and
with keen-edged faculties; therefore the principle of heredity causes
us to recast our idea of the office of education, and to recognise
that the child of intelligent parents is born with an inheritance of
self-developing faculties.
Thus education naturally divides itself into education for the
children of _lettered_, and education for the children of _unlettered_
parents. In fact, this class question, which we are all anxious to
evade in common life, comes practically into force in education. It is
absolutely necessary to individualise and say, this part of education
is the most important for _this_ child, or _this_ class, but may be
relegated into a lower place for another child or another class.
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