Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
If science limits our range of work as regards the development of
so-called faculties, it extends it in equal measure with regard to
habit. Here we have no new doctrine to proclaim. “One custom overcometh
another,” said Thomas à Kempis, and that is all we have to say; only
physiologists have made clear to us the _rationale_ of this law of
habit. We know that to form in his child right habits of thinking and
behaving is a parent’s chief duty, and that this can be done for every
child definitely and within given limits of time. But this question has
been already dealt with, and we need do no more than remind parents of
what they already know.
To nourish a child daily with loving, right, and noble ideas we believe
to be the parent’s next duty. The child having once received the Idea
will assimilate it in his own way, and work it into the fabric of
his life; and a single sentence from his mother’s lips may give him
a bent that will make him, or may tend to make him, painter or poet,
statesman or philanthropist. The object of lessons should be in the
main twofold: to train a child in certain mental habits, as attention,
accuracy, promptness, &c., and to nourish him with ideas which may bear
fruit in his life.
There are other educational principles which we bear in mind and
work out, but for the moment it is worth while for us to concentrate
our thought upon the fact that one of our objects is to accentuate
the importance of education under the two heads of the _formation
of habits_ and the _presentation of ideas_, and as a corollary to
recognise that the _development_ of _faculties_ is not a supreme object
with the cultivated classes, because this is work which has been done
for their children in a former generation.
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