Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
The Christian religion is, in its very nature, objective. It offers
for our worship, reverence, service, adoration and delight, a Divine
Person, the Desire of the world. Simplicity, happiness and expansion
come from the outpouring of a human heart upon that which is altogether
worthy. But we mistake our own needs, are occupied with our own falls
and our own repentances, our manifold states of consciousness. Our
religion is subjective first, and after that, so far as we are able,
objective. The order should rather be objective first, and after that,
so far as we have any time or care to think about ourselves, subjective.
Now the tendency of children is to be altogether objective, not at
all subjective, and perhaps that is why they are said to be first
in the kingdom of heaven. This philosophic distinction is not one
which we can put aside as having no bearing on everyday life. It
strikes the keynote for the training of children. In proportion as our
training tends to develop the subjective principle, it tends to place
our children on a lower level of purpose, character, and usefulness
throughout their lives: while so far as we develop the objective
principle, with which the children are born, we make them capable of
love, service, heroism, worship.
It is curious to observe how every function of our most complex nature
may have its subjective or its objective development. The child may
eat and drink and rest with the most absolute disregard of what he is
about, his parents taking care that these things are happily arranged
for him, but taking equal care that his attention shall not be turned
to the pleasures of appetite. But this is a point that we hardly need
to dwell upon, as thoughtful parents are agreed that children’s meals
should be so regularly pleasant and various that the child naturally
eats with satisfaction and thinks little or nothing of what he is
eating; that is, parents are careful that, in the matter of food,
children shall not be self-regardful.
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