Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
A sunshiny day followed this stormy morning; the next day passed in
peace and gladness, but, the next, some hair astray, some crumpled
rose-leaf under him, brought on another of Guy’s furious outbursts.
Once again the same dreary routine was gone through; and, once again,
the tempestuous morning was forgotten in the sunshine of the child’s
day.
Not by the father, though: at last, Mr. Belmont was roused to give
his full attention to the mischief which had been going on under his
eyes for nearly the five years of Guy’s short life. It dawned upon
him--other people had seen it for years--that his wife’s nervous
headaches and general want of tone might well be due to this constantly
recurring distress. He was a man of reading and intelligence, in touch
with the scientific thought of the day, and especially interested in
what may be called the physical basis of character,--the interaction
which is ever taking place between the material brain and the
immaterial thought and feeling of which it is the organ. He had even
made little observations and experiments, declared to be valuable by
his friend and ally, Dr. Steinbach, the head physician of the county
hospital.
For a whole month he spread crumbs on the window-sill every morning at
five minutes to eight; the birds gathered as punctually, and by eight
o’clock the “table” was cleared and not a crumb remained. So far, the
experiment was a great delight to the children, Guy and Flo, who were
all agog to know how the birds knew the time.
After a month of free breakfasts: “You shall see now whether or no the
birds come because they see the crumbs.” The prospect was delightful,
but, alas! this stage of the experiment was very much otherwise to the
pitiful childish hearts.
“Oh, father, _please_ let us put out crumbs for the poor little birds,
they are so hungry!” a prayer seconded by Mrs. Belmont, met with very
ready acceptance. The best of us have our moments of weakness.
“Very interesting,” said the two savants. “Nothing could show more
clearly the readiness with which a habit is formed in even the less
intelligent of the creatures.”
“Yes, and more than that, it shows the automatic nature of the action
once the habit is formed. Observe, the birds came punctually and
regularly when there were no longer crumbs for them. They did not come,
look for their breakfast, and take sudden flight when it was not there,
but they settled as before, stayed as long as before, and then flew off
without any sign of disappointment. That is, they came, as we set one
foot before another in walking, just out of habit, without any looking
for crumbs, or conscious intention of any sort, a mere automatic or
machine-like action with which conscious thought has nothing to do.”
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