Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Of another little experiment Mr. Belmont was especially proud, because
it brought down, as it were, two quarries at a stroke; touched heredity
and automatic action in one little series of observations. Rover, the
family dog, appeared in the first place as a miserable puppy saved from
drowning. He was of no breed to speak of, but care and good living
agreed with him. He developed a handsome shaggy white coat, a quiet,
well-featured face, and betrayed his low origin only by one inveterate
habit; carts he took no notice of, but never a carriage, small or
great, appeared in sight but he ran yelping at the heels of the horses
in an intolerable way, contriving at the same time to dodge the whip
like any street Arab. Oddly enough, it came out through the milkman
that Rover came of a mother who met with her death through this very
peccadillo.
Here was an opportunity. The point was, to prove not only that the
barking was automatic, but that the most inveterate habit, even an
inherited habit, is open to cure.
Mr. Belmont devoted himself to the experiment: he gave orders that,
for a month, Rover should go out with no one but himself. Two pairs of
ears were on the alert for wheels; two, distinguished between carriage
and cart. Now Rover was the master of an accomplishment of which he
and the family were proud: he could carry a newspaper in his mouth.
Wheels in the distance, then, “Hi! Rover!” and Rover trotted along, the
proud bearer of the _Times_. This went on daily for a month, until at
last the association between wheels and newspaper was established, and
a distant rumble would bring him up--a demand in his eyes. Rover was
cured. By-and-by the paper was unnecessary, and “To heel! good dog!”
was enough when an ominous falling of the jaw threatened a return of
the old habit.
It is extraordinary how wide is the gap between theory and practice
in most of our lives. “The man who knows the power of habit has a key
wherewith to regulate his own life and the lives of his household, down
to that of the cat sitting at his hearth.” (_Applause._) Thus, Mr.
Belmont at a scientific gathering. But only this morning did it dawn
upon him that, with this key between his fingers, he was letting his
wife’s health, his child’s life, be ruined by a habit fatal alike to
present peace, and to the hope of manly self-possession in the future.
Poor man! he had a bad half-hour that morning on his way Citywards. He
was not given to introspection, but, when it was forced upon him, he
dealt honestly.
“I must see Steinbach to-night, and talk the whole thing out with him.”
* * * * *
“Ah, so; the dear Guy! And how long is it, do you say, since the boy
has thus out-broken?”
“All his life, for anything I know--certainly it began in his infancy.”
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