Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“The tendency was there, we will allow; but you should never have
allowed the _habit_ of this sort of feeling to be set up. You should
have been on the watch for the outward signs--the same then as now,
some degree of pallor, with general limpness of attitude, and more or
less dropping of the lips and eyes. The moment one such sign appeared,
you should have been at hand to seize the child out of the cloud she
was entering, and to let her bask for an hour or two in love and light,
forcing her to meet you eye to eye, to find only love and joy in yours.
Every sullen attack averted is so much against setting up the habit;
and habit, as you know, is a chief factor in character.”
“And can we do nothing for her now?”
“Certainly you can. Ignore the sullen humours, let gay life go on as
if she was not there, only drawing her into it now and then by an
appeal for her opinion, or for her laugh at a joke. Above all, when
good manners compel her to look up, let her meet unclouded eyes, full
of pleasure in her; for, believe, whatever cause of offence she gives
to you, she is far more deeply offensive to herself. And you should do
this all the more because, poor girl, the brunt of the battle will fall
upon her.”
“I see you are right; all along, her sullenness has given way before
her father’s delight in her, and indeed it is in this way that my
husband has so far cured me. I suppose you would say he had broken the
habit. But won’t you see her and talk to her? I know you can help her
most.”
“Well, to tell you the truth, I was going to ask you if I might; her
sensitive nature must be gently handled; and, just because she has
no such love for me as for her parents, I run less risk of wounding
her. Besides, I have a secret to tell which should help her in the
management of herself.”
“Thank you, Evans; we are more grateful than I can say. Will you strike
while the iron’s hot? Shall we go away and send her to you, letting her
suppose it is a mere medical call?”
PART V
“Good-morning, Miss Dorothy; do you know I think it’s quite time this
state of things should come to an end. We are both tired of the humbug
of treating you for want of health when you are quite strong and well.”
Dorothy looked up with flushed face (I had it all later from both Dr.
Evans and Dorothy herself), and eyes half relieved, half doubtful, but
not resentful, and stood quietly waiting.
“All the same, I think you are in a bad way, and are in great need of
help. Will you bear with me while I tell you what is the matter, and
how you may be cured?”
Dorothy was past speaking, and gave a silent assent.
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