Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
In every human being there are implanted, as we know, certain so-called
primary or natural desires, which are among the springs or principles
out of which his action or conduct flows. These desires are neither
virtuous nor vicious in themselves: they are quite involuntary: they
have place equally in the savage and savant: he who makes his appeal
to any one of those primary desires is certain of a hearing. Thus,
every man has an innate desire of companionship: every man wants to
_know_, however little worthy the objects of his curiosity: we all want
to stand well with our neighbours, however fatuously we lay ourselves
out for esteem: we would, each of us, fain be the best at some one
thing, if it be only a game of chance which excites our emulation; and
we would all have rule, have authority, even if our ambition has no
greater scope than the rule of a dog or a child affords. These desires
being primary or natural, the absence of any one of them in a human
being makes that person so far unnatural. The man who hates society
is a misanthrope; he who has no curiosity is a clod. But, seeing that
a man may make shipwreck of his character and his destiny by the
excessive indulgence of any one of these desires, the regulation,
balancing, and due ordering of these springs of action is an important
part of that wise self-government which is the duty of every man,
especially of every Christian man.
It is not that the primary desires are the only springs of action; we
all know that the affections, the appetites, the emotions, play their
part, and that reason and conscience are the appointed regulators of
machinery which may be set in motion by a hundred impulses. But the
subject for our consideration is the punishments inflicted on children;
and we shall not arrive at any safe conclusion unless we regard these
punishments from the point of view of the punisher as well as from that
of the punished.
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