Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Now every one of the primary desires, as well as of the affections and
appetites, has a tendency to run riot if its object be well within
its grasp. The desire of society undirected and unregulated may lead
to endless gadding about and herding together. The fine principle
of curiosity may issue in an inordinate love of gossip, and of poor
disconnected morsels of knowledge served up in scraps, which are of the
nature of gossip. Ambition, the desire of power, comes into play when
we have a live thing to order, and we rule child and servant, horse and
dog. And it is well that we should. The person who is (comparatively)
without ambition has no capacity to rule. Have you a nurse who
“manages” children well? She is an ambitious woman, and her ambition
finds delightful scope in the government of the nursery. At the same
time, the love of power, unless it be duly and carefully regulated
and controlled, leads to arbitrary behaviour--that is, to lawless,
injurious behaviour--towards those under our rule. Nay, we may be so
carried away, intoxicated, by a fierce lust of power that we do some
terrible irrevocable deed of cruelty to a tender child-body or soul,
and wake up to never-ending remorse. We meant no harm; we meant to
teach obedience, and, good God! we have killed a child.
Within the last few years tales have been told in the newspapers of
the savage abuse of power, free for the time being from external
control; tales, which, be they true or not, should make us all commune
with our hearts and be still. For, we may believe it, they who have
done these things are no worse than we could be. They had opportunity
to do ill deeds, and they did them. We have not been so far left to
ourselves. But let us look ourselves in the face; let us recognise
that the principle which has betrayed others into the madness of crime
is inherent in us also, and that whether it shall lead us to heights
of noble living or to criminal cruelty is not a matter to be left to
the chapter of accidents. We have need of the divine grace to prevent
and follow us, and we have need to consciously seek and diligently use
this grace to keep us who are in authority in the spirit of meekness,
remembering always that the One who is entrusted with the rod of iron
is meek and lowly of heart.
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