Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
It is only as we recognise our limitations that our work becomes
effective: when we see definitely what we are to do, what we can do,
and what we cannot do, we set to work with confidence and courage; we
have an end in view, and we make our way intelligently towards that
end, and a _way to an end_ is _method_. It rests with parents not only
to give their children birth into the life of intelligence and moral
power, but to sustain the higher life which they have borne. Now that
life, which we call education, receives only one kind of sustenance; it
grows upon _ideas_. You may go through years of so-called “education”
without getting a single vital idea; and that is why many a well-fed
body carries about a feeble, starved intelligence; and no society for
the prevention of cruelty to children cries shame on the parents. Only
the other day we heard of a girl of fifteen who had spent two years
at a school without taking part in a single lesson, and this by the
express desire of her mother, who wished all her time and all her pains
to be given to “fancy needlework.” This, no doubt, is a survival (not
of the fittest), but it is possible to pass even the Universities’
Local Examinations with credit, without ever having experienced that
vital stir which marks the inception of an idea; and, if we have
succeeded in escaping this disturbing influence, why we have “finished
our education” when we leave school; we shut up our books and our
minds, and remain pigmies in the dark forest of our own dim world of
thought and feeling.
What is an idea? A live thing of the mind, according to the older
philosophers, from Plato to Bacon, from Bacon to Coleridge. We say of
an idea that it strikes us, impresses us, seizes us, takes possession
of us, rules us; and our common speech is, as usual, truer to fact
than the conscious thought which it expresses. We do not in the least
exaggerate in ascribing this sort of action and power to an idea. We
form an _ideal_--a, so to speak, embodied idea--and our ideal exercises
the very strongest formative influence upon us. Why do you devote
yourself to this pursuit, that cause? “Because twenty years ago such
and such an idea _struck_ me,” is the sort of history which might be
given of every purposeful life--every life devoted to the working out
of an idea. Now is it not marvellous that, recognising as we do the
potency of an idea, both the word and the conception it covers enter so
little into our thought of education?
Coleridge brings the conception of an “idea” within the sphere of the
scientific thought of to-day; not as that thought is expressed in
_Psychology_--a term which he himself launched upon the world with an
apology for it as an _insolens verbum_,[1] but in that science of the
correlation and interaction of mind and brain, which is at present
rather clumsily expressed in such terms as “mental physiology” and
“psycho-physiology.”
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