Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“Not a doubt of it; and you may rely on it that what is called
_ability_--a different thing from genius, mind you, or even
talent--ability is simply the power of fixing the attention steadily
on the matter in hand, and success in life turns upon this cultivated
power far more than on any natural faculty. Lay a case before a
successful barrister, an able man of business, notice how he absorbs
all you say; tell your tale as ill as you like, he keeps the thread,
straightens the tangle, and by the time you have finished, has the
whole matter spread out in order under his mind’s eye. Now comes in
talent, or genius, or what you will, to deal with the facts he has
taken in. But attention is the attribute of the trained intellect,
without which genius makes shots in the dark.”
“But, don’t you think attention itself is a natural faculty, or talent,
or whatever we should call it?”
“Not a bit of it; it is entirely the result of training. A man may be
born with some faculty or talent for figures, or drawing, or music, but
attention is not a faculty at all; it is simply the power of bending
such faculties as one has to the work in hand; it is a key to success
within the reach of every one, but the power to turn it comes of
training. Circumstances may compel a man to train himself, but he does
so at the cost of great effort, and the chances are ten to one against
his making the effort. For the child, on the other hand, who has been
trained by his parents to fix his thoughts, all is plain sailing. He
will succeed, not a doubt of it.”
“But I thought school-work, Latin and mathematics, and those sorts of
things, should give this kind of intellectual training?”
“They should; but it’s the merest chance whether the right spring is
touched, and from what you say of Fred’s school-work, I should say it
was not touched in his case. ’Tis incredible how much solid learning
a boy will contrive to let slip by him instead of into him! No; I’m
afraid you must tackle the difficulty yourself. It would be a thousand
pities to let a fine fellow like Fred run to waste.”
“What can I do?”
“Well, we must begin where we are; Fred _can_ attend, and therefore
remember: and he remembers what interests him. Now, to return to your
question, How are you to make a message to Mrs. Milner as interesting
to him as the affairs of his cricket club? There is no interest in the
thing itself; you must put interest into it from without. There are a
hundred ways of doing this: try one, and when that is used up, turn to
another. Only, with a boy of Fred’s age, you cannot form the habit of
attention as you could with a child. You can only aid and abet; give
the impulse; the training he must do for himself.”
“Make it a little plainer, doctor; I have not yet reduced your remarks
to the practical level of something I can do.”
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