Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
“No? Well, Fred must train himself, and you must feed him with motives.
Run over with him what we have been saying about attention. Let him
know how the land lies; that you cannot help him, but that if he wants
to make a man of himself he must _make_ himself attend and remember.
Tell him it will be a stand-up fight, for this habit is contrary to
nature. He will like that; ’tis boy nature to show fight, and the
bigger and blacker you make the other side, the more will he like
to pitch in. When I was a boy I had to fight this very battle for
myself, and I’ll tell you what I did. I stuck up a card every week,
divided down the middle. One side was for ‘Remembers’; the other side
for ‘Forgets.’ I took myself to task every night--the very effort was
a help--and put a stroke for every ‘Remember’ and ‘Forget’ of the
day. _I_ scored for every ‘Remember,’ and ‘t’other fellow’ for every
‘Forget.’ You don’t know how exciting it got. If by Thursday I had
thirty-three ‘Remembers’ and he thirty-six ‘Forgets’ it behoved me to
look alive; it was not only that ‘Forget’ might win the game, which was
up on Saturday night, but unless ‘Remember’ scored ten in advance, the
game was ‘drawn’--hardly a remove from lost.”
“That’s delicious! But, I wish, doctor, you would speak to Fred
yourself. A word from you would go a long way.”
“I’ll look out for a chance, but an outsider cannot do much; everything
rests with the boy himself, and his parents.”
CHAPTER VIII
_POOR MRS. JUMEAU!_
“Now, young people, when I go out, let there be no noise in the house;
your mother is ill, so let her little folk be thoughtful for her!”
“Oh, is mother sick again?” said little Ned with falling countenance.
“Poor Neddie! he doesn’t like mother to be ill. We all have to be so
quiet, and, then, there’s nowhere to be! It isn’t like home when mother
isn’t about.”
“Mary is right,” chimed in Charlie, the eldest of the family; “if I
were big enough, I should run away and go to sea, mother’s so often
bad! But, father, isn’t it funny? Yesterday she was quite well, and
doing all sorts of horrid things, helping the maids to clear out
cupboards; and now, I dare say, she is too ill to move or speak, and
to-morrow, perhaps, she’ll be our jolly mother again, able to go
shrimping with us, or anything else.”
“That’s because your dear mother has no self, Charlie, boy; no sooner
does she feel a bit better than she does more than she can for us
all, and then she is knocked up again. I wish we could teach her to
be selfish, for our sakes as well as hers, for to have her with us is
better than anything she can do for us; eh, Charlie?”
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