Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
Now, that their young people should thus take to the water need not
come upon parents as a surprise. The whole training from babyhood
upward should be in view of this plunge. When the time comes, there is
nothing to be done; openly, it may be, secretly if the home rule is
rigid, the young folk think their own thoughts; that is, they follow
the leader they have elected; for they are truly modest and humble at
heart, and do not yet venture to think for themselves; only they have
transferred their allegiance. Nor is this transfer of allegiance to be
resented by parents; we all claim this kind of “suffrage” in our turn
when we feel ourselves included in larger interests than those of the
family.
But there is much to be done beforehand, though nothing when the time
comes. The notion that any contemporary authority is infallible may
be steadily undermined from infancy onwards, though at some sacrifice
of ease and glory to the parents. “I don’t know” must take the place
of the vague wise-sounding answer, the random shot which children’s
pertinacious questionings too often provoke. And “I don’t know” should
be followed by the effort to know, the research necessary to find
out. Even then, the possibility of error in a “printed book” must
occasionally be faced. The results of this kind of training in the way
of mental balance and repose are invaluable.
Another safeguard is in the attitude of reservation, shall we say?
which it may be well to preserve towards “Science.” It is well that
the enthusiasm of children should be kindled, that they should see how
glorious it is to devote a lifetime to patient research, how great to
find out a single secret of nature, a key to many riddles. The heroes
of science should be their heroes; the great names, especially of those
who are amongst us, should be household words. But here, again, nice
discrimination should be exercised; two points should be kept well to
the front--the absolute silence of the oracle on all ultimate questions
of origin and life, and the fact that, all along the line, scientific
truth comes in like the tide, with steady advance, but with ebb and
flow of every wavelet of truth; so much so, that, at the present
moment, the teaching of the last twenty years is discredited in at
least half a dozen departments of science. Indeed, it would seem to be
the part of wisdom to wait half a century before fitting the discovery
of to-day into the general scheme of things. And this, not because the
latest discovery is not absolutely true, but because we are not yet
able so to adjust it--according to the “science of the proportion of
things”--that it shall be relatively true.
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