Parents and childrenMason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Philosophy
Parents and children
Mason, Charlotte M. (Charlotte Maria)
Child rearing; Education -- Parent participation
But what if from childhood they had been warned, “Take care of your
thoughts, and the rest will take care of itself; let a thought in, and
it will stay; will come again to-morrow and the next day, will make a
place for itself in your brain, and will bring many other thoughts like
itself. Your business is to look at the thoughts as they come, to keep
out the wrong thoughts, and let in the right. See that ye _enter not_
into temptation.” This sort of teaching is not so hard to understand
as the rules for the English nominative, and is of infinitively more
profit in the conduct of life. It is a great safeguard to know that
your “reason” is capable of proving any theory you allow yourself to
entertain.
We have touched here only on the negative side of the parent’s work as
prophet, inspirer. There are perhaps few parents to whom the innocence
of the babe in its mother’s arms does not appeal with pathetic force.
“Open me the gates of righteousness, that I may go in unto them,” is
the voice of the little unworldly child; and a wish, anyway, that he
may be kept unspotted from the world is breathed in every kiss of
his mother, in the light of his father’s eyes. But how ready we are
to conclude that children cannot be expected to understand spiritual
things. Our own grasp of the things of the Spirit is all too lax, and
how can we expect that the child’s feeble intelligence can apprehend
the highest mysteries of our being? But here we are altogether wrong.
It is with the advance of years that a materialistic temper settles
upon us. But the children live in the light of the morning-land. The
spirit-world has no mysteries for them; that parable and travesty of
the spirit-world, the fairy-world, where all things are possible, is
it not their favourite dwelling-place? And fairy tales are so dear
to children because their spirits fret against the hard and narrow
limitations of time and place and substance; they cannot breathe
freely in a material world. Think what the vision of God should be
to the little child already peering wistfully through the bars of
his prison-house. Not a far-off God, a cold abstraction, but a warm,
breathing, spiritual Presence about his path and about his bed--a
Presence in which he recognises protection and tenderness in darkness
and danger, towards which he rushes as the timid child to hide his
face in his mother’s skirts.
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