Parkhurst Boys, and Other Stories of School LifeReed, Talbot Baines
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Parkhurst Boys, and Other Stories of School Life
Reed, Talbot Baines
Schools -- Fiction
There are two sorts of growlers. There is the man who honestly attacks
what is really wrong for the sake of making it right, and there is the
man who instinctively grumbles at everything for the mere sake of
growling. The former class is as useful as the latter is tiresome, and
if we must growl, by all means let us find out some real grievance to
attack. Grumbling is a habit that grows quickly and with very little
encouragement, and those who go in for it must make up their minds to
have to do with very few friends. For who would consent to be the
friend of a growler? It would be as bad as becoming the servant of a
man who kept an electrical machine--he would always be trying it on you!
And he must be content also to find that very few people sympathise
with him. For when a man is a confirmed grumbler at everything, no one
afflicts himself much about his lamentations, but puts it all down to
his infirmity.
"Poor fellow, his digestion isn't good, or his liver's out of order!"
they will say, and think no more about it.
Growler of our school was an able fellow in his way; and successful,
too, but he wasn't liked. Some were afraid of him, some detested him,
and most cared very little about him. I don't suppose he will ever do
much good in the world, for this reason--his influence is so small. One
would like to know if he is really as unhappy as he would make every one
believe. I have a notion he is not, but is the victim of a habit which
he has allowed to grow on him till it is past shaking off. Moral, boys:
When you catch yourselves grumbling, make sure the grievance is a real
one. If it is, don't be content with grumbling, but follow it up till
the wrong is put right. But if you find yourself growling merely
because it sounds a fine thing to do, then let growl number one be not
only the first but the last performance of the kind; and no one then
will be able to growl at you.
CHAPTER EIGHTEEN.
THE BULLY.
There are bullies and bullies. There is the big brother, for instance,
who considers it as much part of his duty to administer an occasional
cuff to his youthful relative, as he does to stroke his own chin for the
first sign of a beard, or to wear his tall hat on Sundays. That is not
the sort of bullying any one complains of. Pretty sort of fellows some
of us would have turned out if we hadn't come in for a little wholesome
knocking about in our day! What's the use of big brothers, we should
like to know, if it's not to chastise youngsters! and what are younger
brothers made for, if they are not to be occasionally "whopped!"
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