Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
These broad statements need careful application in particular instances.
For example, to answer the questions of an administrator should never be
construed as tattling. To relate daily that Charley has been dropping
hints of his intention to give Robert a sound thrashing should not be
approved under the head of school loyalty; it stands on the level of
gossip.
Teachers will do well to weigh carefully the attitudes of the
conscientious and the over-conscientious pupils of their schools. The
sense of duty to their schoolmates and to their teachers sometimes leads
them into embarrassing dilemmas. A rough and ready rudeness with them
will mark the dull and hardened teacher, who may foster a strained
abhorrence of tale-bearing.
In the daily experience of the school-room it will be found that
tattling usually arises from a distinctly selfish impulse. Perhaps
jealousy is the most usual inciting cause. At times there is a standing
antagonism between two pupils; the hope of revenge is here the leading
impulse to tale-bearing. In other instances mere acquaintance, with
neither friendship or antipathy, is to be observed; the eagerness for a
sensation such as seeing a boy or girl whipped may lead to reporting
minor or major wrongs.
[Sidenote: First Grade]
The little child who comes to school and tells the teacher and his
playmates all the happenings of the home is as annoying as the pupil
that is constantly coming to the teacher to tell that a certain pupil
did this or that, or, in common school language, tattles. While a few
teachers cultivate this practice in pupils, it is right to brand it as
one of the most ignoble of habits. Teacher and pupils can be no better
off for knowing all that goes on in a certain home. The teacher should
tactfully talk of something else—something so interesting as to divert
him from his talk about home matters.
The habit of tattling or “telling on” other pupils is more annoying and
usually gets the pupil who indulges in the habit into ill-repute with
the other pupils. It must be admitted that the teacher sometimes needs
information from a pupil or pupils to ferret out some misdemeanor. But
this should be given only when the teacher asks for it. In the first
grade it is almost an exception if the teacher needs to ask pupils to
give information to explain some misdemeanor. If the teacher pays no
attention to tattling, it will soon stop. The spirit of tattling can be
effectively cured, if, when the child tells on a certain pupil, the
teacher will turn to the child and ask him if he does not admire some
particular trait in the other child.
Often the motive for tattling is envy. By asking something about the
other child’s good traits, envy will be eradicated, and it will be the
exception if the offense is repeated.
CASE 117 (SECOND GRADE)
Daisy was a talkative child. Her eyes went everywhere and her ears
picked up all the news that passed her way.
[Sidenote: “Telling on” the Pupils]
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