Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
“Teacher, Tommy’s whispering”—“Jennie lost her book”—“Philip said some
bad words”—“Annie’s papa’s dead, and she says she don’t care.” After a
few interruptions of this sort, her teacher broke out with:
“If you don’t shut up, I shall go crazy. Why don’t you go to work and
leave other people’s affairs alone?”
Such a rebuke closed up the torrent of tattling for only a very few
minutes.
The next string of remarks was cut off with, “Not another word from you
this morning. You’re a regular little tattle-tale.” When another remark
began it was blocked by:
“I can’t hear any more tales from you today.”
CONSTRUCTIVE TREATMENT
Substitute some suitable form of expression for this excessive
tale-bearing. Even an eager interruption of the child, when you discern
the trend of her remarks, is entirely in order. In particular try to
find food for her mental hunger in the novel and sensational matters of
her daily school life. Make immediate offers of help in her school work,
in place of patient attention to tales. Polite ignoring of the child’s
chatter will ultimately induce her to cease; especially if you suggest
your disapproval of her unkind remarks by saying: “I like to hear good
things about people,” or “Haven’t you something pleasant to tell me
today?”
COMMENTS
No doubt the little tale-bearer often conveys useful information. If the
teacher discloses any satisfaction with these tales, she may aggravate
the very ill she should endeavor to cure. Any gains from tattling,
should be used with great caution.
The general attitude of indifference and unconcern is the best antidote
for tattling. When a story-teller loses his audience, all the impulses
to talk are quieted; he necessarily runs down. A dignified reserve and a
continuous distraction from the disagreeable habit will be a certain
remedy.
ILLUSTRATION (RURAL SCHOOL)
[Sidenote: Ignore Remarks]
Miss Moffit, recently at the Endwood rural school, had the art of
drawing out her pupils’ confidence on a variety of topics. They
discussed school work, flower gardens, dress-making, electrical devices,
corn contests, and a wide range of topics. This freedom of intercourse
spurred the tattlers also into action. Hilliard came up at frequent
intervals with numerous, personal incidents, until he learned how to
control his tongue.
“Some of the boys are taking home chalk in their pockets.” At another
time, “Sallie’s eating in school time,” or “Minnie didn’t get her
problems.”
Miss Moffit sensed the drift of Hilliard’s mind. She decided to become
absolutely impervious to Hilliard’s tales. She took the lead in
conversations when he approached; she switched from one topic to another
so rapidly that he had no opportunity to make much of his fund of
anecdotes. She gratified his impulse to talk, by asking him questions on
themes in which he was interested.
Tattling to the teacher lost its charm for Miss Moffit’s pupils.
CASE 118 (THIRD GRADE)
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