Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
(2) _Jealousy._ Some one has truly said, “In jealousy there is more
self-love than love.” It is an attitude which develops early, however.
Even very young children will sometimes destroy an object rather than
have it fall into the hands of another. As a rule the smaller the number
of individuals in competition and the narrower the range of their
interests the more intense will be the jealousy between them.
The teacher’s problems are complicated by jealousies in two ways: (1) by
a spirit of unkindly rivalry among patrons of the school, a feeling
which is sure to be reflected in the attitudes of the pupils toward each
other, and (2) by a spirit of jealousy arising among and limited to the
pupils themselves.
The first type has been treated incidentally in other parts of Practical
School Discipline and need not be further dealt with here. The second
type, fortunately, is not a very common cause of trouble in the well
ordered school-room, but it is a fault so harmful to the child himself
and in adult life, so harmful to all who come within its blighting
influence, that it can not be too carefully watched and checked in its
early development.
During adolescence and afterwards, jealous attitudes arise mainly out of
sports and out of competition for sex recognition and appreciation.
Jealousy breeds an angry resentment toward a person who holds or seems
likely to acquire one’s property or personal privilege. It embraces a
feeling of fear and a sense of helplessness in the face of the
aggressor. It develops an enlarged appreciation of the treasures
involved and a disposition to care for them by violence, or if defence
is useless, to destroy them.
Jealousy, envy, rivalry and covetousness are only varying forms of the
same anti-social attitude of selfishness. Tact and patience on the part
of parent and teacher and the judicious application of the Five
Fundamental Principles will uproot them all in time.
CASE 129 (THIRD GRADE)
Julia Jenkins was a beautiful child with a sunny disposition and an
inclination toward sociability. Her voice was well modulated for a
child, and her manners were charming. She loved everybody. Her dresses
were fashionable, dainty and immaculate, her curls always becomingly
arranged. Altogether she was such a child as one delights to see, one
who brought a smile to the faces of almost all whom she met, strangers
as well as friends. As she entered the third grade school-room for the
first time, Miss Elliot, the teacher, exclaimed, “What a darling!”
Among other pupils in the room was Caroline Hillis, a timid little girl
with a solemn, little old-looking face. Her language was crude, her
manner unpolished and her dresses ill-fitting, coarse and faded. She was
the eldest of four children and long before she reached the third grade
was considered by her mother too big to be kissed and petted.
[Sidenote: Jealous of Playmate]
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