Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
The prudent teacher of the first year needs often to solicit the aid of
parents in righting a spoiled child, and often she must convince them
that they are wrong in their methods of rearing their children. If the
teacher cannot enlist the aid of parents, then she must fight her battle
single-handed. But there is no need for discouragement. The child will
love one who loves him. A lovable and wise teacher often succeeds where
a parent fails. Parents are often alarmingly short-sighted when it comes
to training their children. It is not an imaginary condition but one all
too real, that in many homes the children are, in actuality, the
controlling forces. It is distressing to see how helpless parents can
be, and what American parents are enduring from their children. From
such poorly regulated homes come the “spoiled” children to the first
grade teacher, and in many instances all the meanness such children can
perpetrate is considered “cute” by the over-indulgent parents.
In dealing with the badly trained child, the teacher must avoid any use
of force. That would only antagonize him. The teacher should be firm,
but kind, treating him just as he treats the others; if he does good
work, commending him for it. She need not even notice many of his
outbreaks—he will soon discontinue them. Often he is spoiled because the
parents have paid too much attention to his every whim and fancy. When
he learns that he can not worry the teacher, and that she will not
contend with him in his trivial desires, he will cease to annoy her.
Last of all, the teacher can fill in the gaps of idleness in the child’s
time by keeping him interested and busy.
If the child is saucy, the teacher must avoid telling the pupil that he
“must not be saucy”; such a method will make the pupil aware of the fact
that being saucy is distasteful to the teacher, and he will resort to
that method whenever his spirits are ruffled. The better thing to do is
to ignore him altogether, and proceed with the work at hand, as though
nothing had occurred. The teacher should not display the least emotion
by look or expression, for the child usually watches the teacher to note
the effect of his sarcasm or imprudent statement. When he finds out that
he is ignored, he will resort less to his annoying habit. If the child
tries to tease her, she can casually and without any use of force, draw
him away into some interesting game or activity. Or the teacher may call
the pupil by name and say, “Come here a moment, I have something for you
to do.” She may have a new game ready and have this pupil be the leader.
This will draw his attention from teasing. In other words, substitute
some other and more interesting activity. A few weeks of such control
will remedy the annoyance.
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