Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
It is a good plan with such a pupil to send him on an errand every now
and then, when he is in a good mood, making the request in a
confidential tone, and saying to him on his return, “You are so kind for
doing that. Thank you ever so much.” This will tend to get him in the
habit of doing favors for you and will increase his friendliness toward
you. Another way to establish more firmly his willingness to be friendly
is to make it a point to talk to him before school or at recess about
something in which you know he will be very much interested—about his
favorite pastime or sport.
There is no boy or girl who does not have some hobby, and after you have
made an earnest attempt to find out what that interest is and have begun
to make use of it in getting the pupil’s confidence, you will have put
into practice a great principle in discipline. Any new idea which you
can present regarding the hobby will greatly help you to gain the
confidence of the pupil. By a confidential tone and by showing you are
in sympathy with his interests, you can gradually win his confidence.
Whatever you do, do not appear to notice when a pupil is disrespectful
to you. If he has shown disrespect in the past, simply set about at once
to gain his confidence. If he ever mimics any gesture you have made, do
not take it seriously because, nine times out of ten, you would get poor
results. Either appear not to notice it at all or, if you do notice it,
assume that it did not bother you in the least.
To punish a child for anything whatsoever, suggests to him precisely the
thing which we do not want to suggest. Whatever we want a child to be,
we must put the suggestion into his mind, that he already is that very
thing and approve him for whatever he does in that direction.
The principle of initiative in coöperation should be used from the first
in case of a pupil that is extremely disobedient because of home or
outside influence. Many a teacher has invited such a pupil into his home
for a dinner or supper, and has entertained him with the best the home
afforded. In doing so he made the pupil understand that he was
interested in him. Often a walk or a drive which gives occasion for a
confidential talk will establish friendly relations between pupil and
teacher. A teacher must not cease to try to win the unfriendly pupil.
One such in a school can work great harm. The teacher must strive to
make friends of all his pupils.
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