Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2Beery, Ray Coppock
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Practical school discipline : $b Applied methods, part 2
Beery, Ray Coppock
School discipline; Teachers
Mrs. Young laughed with her at the staring little Swedes, who quickly
looked at their books in confusion at the evident discussion of them,
and flushed very red. Feeling that they were interfering with the
program of the school, the three visitors soon left, and then Miss Olney
was freer to give her attention to her pupils.
“Now see here,” she began, “there is one thing we might as well
understand first as last. When company comes, I want you to go right on
with your regular work, and _I’ll_ entertain the visitors. Above all
else, don’t stare at them. You get your lessons, or else you’ll fail
right before company, and then think how ashamed you’ll be. I know you
all want to show off before company, don’t you? And instead of showing
off, you all look as countrified and awkward as a lot of little
geese,—just as though you never had company at home.”
Miss Olney did not have much company during the year, but when she did
she went through about this program each time. Her pupils did not
improve in manners; at the end of the year they were as awkward,
self-conscious and ill-bred as in the beginning. She had utterly failed
because she did not know that good manners are largely taught through
imitation.
CONSTRUCTIVE TREATMENT
Usher guests quietly into the room, and place chairs, or allow pupils to
place chairs for them in some part of the room where their presence will
not interfere with school activities. Talk to them, if at all, so
quietly that pupils will not be disturbed in their work. Go on with
school work as though guests were not present; they want to see the
school routine. Your own quiet acceptance of the presence of guests will
help the pupils to regard the visit as less of an event. If the children
stare at guests, attract their attention by some exercise or talk to
them about their work, or let them do some favorite task that appeals to
them strongly. Then, when the company has gone, talk to them frankly
about the matter of staring, and show them how much more courteous it is
not to look at people intently. Never talk about your pupils to
visitors, unless you can say something pleasant of them; and even
compliments should be paid with caution, as the sweet grace of
unconsciousness is easily spoiled in little people. By your own easy,
matter-of-fact politeness to guests, set the pupils a good example to
imitate.
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