English poetry -- 19th century -- History and criticism; Pre-Raphaelitism in literature
sense of its very life. The whole interest of society depends upon the
chastity and tenderness and moral force of its women. Moral weakness
once begun among the women of the people, the decline of that race
begins. So indeed perished the finest race that ever existed in this
world--the old Greek race.
On the other hand, though unchastity on the part of the man be
certainly condemnable--from a purely moral point of view equally
condemnable--its consequences are not fraught with the same danger to
society, because they are not of a character to destroy the family.
Really the part of man in the great struggle of life is the part of
the fighter. The all important thing for the man is to be strong. If
he can be morally as well as physically strong, so much the better
for the race; but the all important thing is that he shall be able to
fight, to contend, to conquer. It is not through the man that the moral
progress of society is directly effected; it is through the woman and
the teaching of the young, it is through the tenderness and love of
the home--the only place where a man can rest from his constant battle
with the world. It is only in his own home that he can be as good
as he may wish to be. Every good home is a little nursing place of
morality, a little garden in which the plants of honour and truth and
courage and gentleness can be cultivated until they are strong enough
to bear the frosts and the cold winds of the great outside world. In
one generation home life may accomplish very little for the improvement
of a race, but in the course of thousands of years it accomplishes
everything. If men are kinder and wiser and better to-day than they
were thousands of years ago, it is because of the virtues which have
been cultivated in the family. Had the home of human history been a
struggle between men only, the result would have been very different
indeed, for competition and battle cultivate only the hard and fierce
and cunning side of character. Taking all these facts together, the
poet tells us very plainly that adultery is something which should
never be forgiven in a woman, however it might be forgiven in a man,
because the fault against human society is too great. And therefore he
has written this poem especially to condemn those old romances in which
illegitimate affection was the theme--in which, also, every effort was
made to excite the sympathy of the reader with the sin of the woman.
No sympathy has George Meredith; on the contrary, he praises the man
who kills, in the line where he speaks of the sword--where he says
that the good steel of the sword that killed was what every man ought
to be--hard and penetrating, hard and terrible to deal with social
wrong. It is very curious to compare this stern view of life with
the tenderness of Michelet, in his books entitled "L'Amour" and "Les
Femmes." Michelet actually says that in many cases the woman should be
forgiven. The two opposing kinds of views thus expressed by two great
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