Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
Our morality today is different. It is inspired by different ideas, and
aims at a different practice. We are by no means disposed to rate highly
the morality of a girl who is only chaste so long as she is under her
parents' eyes; for us, indeed, that is much more like immorality than
morality. We, today, wish women to be reasonably free; we wish them to
be trained in a sense of responsibility for their own actions; we wish
them to possess knowledge, more especially in the sphere of sex, once
theoretically opposed to them, which we now recognize as peculiarly
their own domain.
Our ideal woman today is not she who is deprived of freedom and
knowledge in the cloister, even though only the cloister of her own
home; but rather the woman who being instructed from early life in the
facts of sexual physiology and sexual hygiene, is also trained to
exercise judgment, will, self-restraint, and self-responsibility, and
able and worthy to be trusted to follow the path which is right
according to the highest ideals of the society of which she is a part.
That is the only kind of morality which now seems to us to be worth
while.
And, as any unprejudiced intelligent person is forced to admit, there is
nothing in the policy of scientific Birth Control to run contrary to
such an ideal of moral womanhood.
But the relation of Birth Control to morality is, however, by no means a
question which concerns women alone. It equally concerns men. Here we
have to recognize, not only that the exercise of control over
procreation enables a man to form a marriage of faithful devotion with
the woman of his choice at an earlier age than would otherwise be
possible, but it further enables him, throughout the whole of his
married life, to continue such relationship under circumstances which
might otherwise render them injurious or else undesirable to his wife.
That the influence exerted by a general knowledge of scientific methods
of Birth Control would suffice to entirely abolish prostitution it is
foolish to maintain, although it would undoubtedly tend to decrease the
social evil. And even the partial elimination of prostitution would be
in the interests of general morality, not only in the direction of
lessening the brutal demand of women to serve in the ranks of
prostitution, but also in many other ways of importance to society as a
whole. The decrease of venereal disease would follow a decrease in
prostitution caused by a general knowledge and practice of scientific
methods of Birth Control on the part of married people; and it must be
remembered that venereal disease spreads far beyond the patrons of
prostitution and is a perpetual menace to others who may become innocent
victims. And any influence that serves to decrease prostitution and the
spread of venereal disease, must be placed in the category of "moral,"
and certainly not in the opposite one.
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