Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
The objection is frequently heard that the general knowledge of
scientific methods of contraception would lead to increased illicit
relations among unmarried persons, particularly among the young people.
This argument is apparently based upon the belief, or fear, that the
fear of conception is the only thing which prevents many persons from
indulging in illicit relations. It assumes that a large portion of our
womankind are chaste simply because of fear of pregnancy; and that this
fear once removed these women would at once plunge into such relations.
In other words, it assumes that mentally and in spirit these women are
already unchaste, but are restrained from physical unchastity by reason
of the fear of conception.
The answer of the advocates of Birth Control takes direct issue with the
above contention. On the contrary, it asserts that the chastity of our
women is the result of their general training, education, heredity,
observance of the accepted customs and standards of their community,
religious and moral training, etc. The woman who is chaste simply
through fear, usually manages to allay that fear in one way or another,
often by mistaken methods which work great harm to the woman and the
community in general. The general knowledge of scientific contraceptive
methods might result in such women manifesting their inclinations and
desires in a "safer" manner, but this "safety" would not consist of
protection against conception (for that they already think they have)
but rather of a protection against the dangers of abortion and similar
evil practices.
Some of the writers go further in this matter, as for instance Dr.
Robinson, who says: "If some women are bound to have illicit relations,
is it not better that they should know the use of scientific preventives
than that they should become pregnant, disgracing and ostracising
themselves, and their families; or that they should subject themselves
to the degradation and risks of an abortion; or failing this, take
carbolic acid or bichloride, jump into the river, or throw themselves
under the wheels of a running train?"
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