Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
Among the earlier advocates of this general class of birth-control
methods was Noyes, the founder of the one-time famous Oneida Community,
who taught the doctrine of what he called "Male Continence." The gist of
his teaching was as follows: That the sexual relation (in its entirety)
should be exercised solely for the purpose of reproduction, all else
being contrary to nature. But, he held, notwithstanding this, there was
possible and proper a certain degree of such physical relation which,
while not opposing Nature's laws of reproduction, yet was sufficient to
afford a complete manifestation of the "affectional desire and
function." In other words, as a writer has expressed it, "that one might
manifest a marked degree of sexual gratification and still remain
continent, while feeling none of the irksome restraints of continence."
Noyes claimed that his community followed this plan with satisfactory
results, the ordinary sexual relations being manifested only when
reproduction was specially desired and deliberately decided upon. Noyes
claimed that in this way there was no secretion of the seminal fluid,
and therefore no waste of the same, and no unnatural practices such
attached to the common custom of "tricking Nature" by methods of
preventing impregnation and conception. Parkhurst (who, as we shall see
presently, followed Noyes) objected to the Noyes plan, claiming that "it
necessarily stimulates into activity the generative functions of the
sexual batteries, and this not only causes a wasteful use of sperm, but
diverts the sexual batteries from their affectional function,
diminishing amative attraction."
In the year 1896, Dr. Alice B. Stockham, of Chicago, published a book
called "Karezza" which has since attained an enormous sale, the leading
principle of which seems to have been almost similar to that of Noyes,
as above stated. The book was built around the idea previously announced
by the same author in an earlier book, which she stated as follows: "By
some a theory called 'secular absorption' is advanced. This involves
intercourse without culmination." In her book "Karezza" this author
further stated: "Karezza so consummates marriage that through the power
of will, and loving thoughts, the crisis is not reached, but a complete
control by both husband and wife is maintained throughout the entire
relation, a conscious conservation of the creative energy. * * * It is
both a union on the affectional plane, and a preparation for the best
possible conditions for procreation."
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