Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
About 1882, Henry M. Parkhurst published a booklet called "Diana," which
since that time has passed through several editions, and has had a large
number of readers. The principle advocated is radically different from
that of Noyes or Dr. Stockham, above mentioned, although some of the
writings of Dr. Stockham seem to favor the Parkhurst idea as much as the
one advanced by herself. Parkhurst, as we may see by reference to a
quotation from him in connection with the Noyes' idea, did not approve
of the "male continence" as taught by the latter, although he seems to
have considered it a step in the right direction.
The gist of the Parkhurst idea is expressed in the following quotations
from his booklet, "Diana": "In order to secure proper and durable
relations between the sexes, it is necessary to live in harmony with the
law of Alphism, that is ABSTINENCE EXCEPT FOR PROCREATION. But if that
principle is adopted alone, no means being taken to provide for the due
exercise of the sexual faculties, it will likely be abandoned or lead to
a life of asceticism. In order to make Alphism practicable for ordinary
men and women, another law has to be observed, that is, the law of
SEXUAL SATISFACTION FROM SEXUAL CONTACT; understanding by the term
'contact' not merely physical external contact, but using the term in
its more general sense to include sexual companionship, or even
correspondence, bringing the minds into mental contact. The observance
of this law will lead to complete and enduring satisfaction in
abstinence.
"It is an observed fact that contact incites to activity the affectional
action, * * * extending over the whole frame, and by their activities
satisfies them, without calling into action the special generative
function of the generative organs. And it is also an observed fact that
the repression of this affectional activity naturally creates a desire
for the exercise of the other; so that a true remedy for sexual
intemperance is the full satisfaction of the affectional mode of
activity by frequent and free sexual contact. Sexual satisfaction may be
obtained by personal presence, conversation, a clasp of the hands,
kissing, caressing, embracing, personal contact with or without the
intervention of dress.
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