Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
"The exercise of the affectional function tends to satiety and
exhaustion in the same way as all other physical or mental exercise; but
if it is not carried to excess it is a permanent benefit. * * * The
principle of Alphism will tend to diminish prostitution, not only by
diminishing sexual intemperance, even if the principle is not at once
accepted in practice to the full extent, thus diminishing the temptation
of the present generation, and the hereditary temptation of future
generations; but also by correcting the physiological error which has
led astray so many, i. e., that total abstinence is not conducive to
health, or to the highest physical pleasure, but that the ordinary
physical relation is an essential feature in male existence.
"To avoid misapprehension, these two theories should be clearly defined
and the distinction between them explained. The doctrine of Alphism is
confined to one principle, i. e., THE LAW OF ABSTINENCE EXCEPT FOR
PROCREATION. Those who believe in this doctrine may be divided into
different classes. Some believe in it as a matter of duty, to be
enforced by precept and self-denial; and some believe in it as a matter
of right, requiring no self-denial. In the latter is included the
doctrine of 'Diana,' which may be defined as THE LAW OF SEXUAL
SATISFACTION FROM SEXUAL CONTACT. In other words, Dianism is Alphism as
the result of sexual equilibration."
The general idea of Parkhurst, and those who have followed his teachings
in some modified or adapted form, may be said to be based upon the
following general proposition: That there is a dual function in the
sexual relations, which may be stated as follows: (1) the function
exercised from purely physiological causes, and which expresses the
desire for the relation resulting in procreation; and (2) the function
exercised from emotional causes, and which expresses what may be called
the "affectional desire," i. e., the desire for the embrace, caress,
fondling, and general companionship with the loved one of the other sex.
The first one of these phases, i. e., the reproductive function, is
manifested by the lower animals as well as by man, and is elemental and
primitive in character. It is often manifested by man without the
accompaniment of the affectional function, and at times seems to be
almost entirely divorced from the idea of high human affection. The
second one of these phases, i. e., the affectional function, usually
accompanied the procreative function in the human sexual relation, at
least in the highest forms of that relation. But also, it may be and
often is manifested independently of the procreative function by men and
women of refinement. In fact, it would seem to be the form of physical
attraction accompanying the very highest phase of love, particularly in
women.
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