Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
Such a belief is of course absurd. It is as natural for a woman to
experience normal sexual feeling as it is for her to experience any
other feeling aroused by natural instincts and organism. Without such
instinct and the feelings arising therefrom, there would be no mating or
marriage, and no perpetuation of the race. The woman experiencing such
feelings should not allow herself to imagine that she is depraved or
perverted, or immoral in thought and feeling. Incredible as it may
appear to a normal, healthy-minded man, it is true that thousands of
young women have lost self-respect, and have lapsed into a morbid state
of mind, because of the occasional manifestation of their normal sexual
feeling.
This does not, of course, mean that the woman must necessarily manifest
into action the feeling experienced by her. On the contrary, she must
acquire self-mastery and self-control, just as she must in other phases
of her life. It may help some women of this kind to realize that the sex
feeling and impulses, arising unbidden (and often unwelcomed) from the
depths of their subconscious mentality, are essentially CREATIVE
impulses. If the woman be unmarried, or if married and placed under
conditions in which the marital relation with the husband is impossible
or undesirable, then she can TRANSMUTE this creative energy in some form
of creative work--in work which leads to the creation, manufacture,
building-up, or composing something. There is a hint here which will
prove a great blessing to the woman who will understand and apply the
principle suggested--for many other women have found it so.
As for the married woman, there is no reason whatsoever why she should
seek to withhold from her husband the knowledge that she is possessed of
normal, natural, healthy sexual feeling. In fact, the withholding of
such information, and the concealment and deception arising therefrom,
has often done much to bring marital inharmony between husband and wife.
If there is any deception to be practiced in the marital association of
husband and wife, it should rather be in the opposite direction, i. e.,
in the direction of pretending the emotional feeling when it exists only
partially or is absent. The last matter, however, is one for the
exercise of the judgment and conviction of each individual woman; but
the first mentioned admonition is one which should be observed, as it is
based on honesty, truth, and good judgment as well.
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