Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
Even those about to enter into the important offices of matrimony and
parenthood are permitted to assume those duties and responsibilities
without intelligent and scientific information or knowledge being given
them. What would we think of expecting a woman to cook, without previous
experience and without even the most elementary instruction on the
subject? What would we think of expecting any person to undertake any
important task or duty without experience or instruction regarding the
same? And yet we seem content to allow young women to enter into the
important relationship of marriage, and to undertake the important
office of motherhood, often in absolute ignorance of the physiological
processes involved, and the physical laws governing the same.
All this absurd practice and custom results simply from the antiquated
notion that it is "not nice" to speak or think of the subject of the sex
functions. The subject has been considered "taboo" by our particular
section of the human race since the Middle Ages, because the ascetic
ideals of that dark period of human history brought forward a totally
false and unnatural conception of sex as fundamentally impure. If the
results were not so deplorable and often tragic, this condition of
affairs would be a fit subject for laughter and scornful ridicule. But,
alas! on the part of the thoughtful observer of this state of things
there is rather great wonder and amazement accompanied by the feeling of
deep sorrow.
It cannot be honestly denied that in our present age, and period of
modern civilization, and particularly among the Anglo-Saxon branch of
the race, the question of the sex functions is associated with impurity,
at least so far as the popular mind is concerned. In previous
civilizations the subject was accorded its proper place, and was
discussed sanely and thoughtfully, without any sense of shame or
impurity. The Middle Age ideals of celibacy and asceticism brought about
the public conception of the human body as a thing impure--something to
be modified, tortured, subdued and reviled; and a corresponding
conception of sex as a vile, impure thing above which the pure in heart
rose entirely and completely, and which those of a lesser spiritual
ideal were permitted to indulge with a due sense of their degradation
and weakness. It was considered a most worthy thing to lead an ascetic
life with its accompaniment of disdain and punishment of the body. It
was considered most pious and spiritual to forego the ordinary human
relations of sex, marriage and parenthood. From these distorted
conceptions naturally evolved the idea that sex, and all connected with
it, was a subject unclean and impure in itself, and to be avoided in
thought, conversation and writing. Not only the ordinary sex relations
of human life were placed under this taboo, but also the phenomena of
birth and parenthood. Not only did these incidents of life grow to be
considered impure, but they became that which to many was still worse,
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