Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be MarriedArmitage, Robert B.
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Private Sex Advice to Women: For Young Wives and those who Expect to be Married
Armitage, Robert B.
Marriage; Sex instruction; Women -- Health and hygiene
In a few decades, perhaps even much sooner, it will be regarded as quite
reprehensible to permit young persons to enter into the relationship of
marriage without a sane, practical knowledge of their own reproductive
organism and the functions thereof, and of their physiological duties to
themselves, to their companions in marriage, and to their children born
or to be born. We may even see the practical application of the somewhat
startling prophecy of Newell Dwight Hillis, D. D., who said: "The State
that makes a man study two years before a license as druggist is given;
that makes a young lawyer or doctor study three years before being
permitted to practice; ought to ask the young man or young woman to pass
an equally rigid examination before license is given to found an
American home, and set up an American family."
While the information above alluded to should be given alike to the
young husband and the young wife, it cannot be doubted that the latter
is the one of the pair who is most in need of this kind of instruction.
While both the young man and the young woman require this instruction,
the need is the greater in the case of the young woman, by the very
nature of the case. The sex functions and processes play a much more
important part in the life of the woman than in that of the man, the
protests of some of the modern feminists to the contrary notwithstanding.
The careful student of the sex life of men and women frankly confesses
that in both the physical and the psychical realm the sex offices make a
greater demand upon the time and attention of the woman than of the man.
The love-life of the woman is far fuller and more absorbing than is that
of the man. Unhappiness concerning her love-life renders the remainder
of the life of the average woman of comparatively little account; while,
with a happy love-life she will put up cheerfully with the absence of
many other things which are usually regarded as necessities for
happiness. As a writer has said: "Essentially, a woman is made for
love--not exclusively, but essentially; and a woman who has had no love
in her life has been a failure."
The same rule operates on the physical plane. As the same writer has
said: "Physically, the woman is also much more cognizant of her sex and
much more hampered by the manifestation of her sex nature than man is."
The manifestation of the incidents of menstruation is a constant
reminder to the woman that she is a creature of sex. The phenomenon of
pregnancy is, likewise, something from which the man is free. And,
finally, the menopause, or "change of life," with its incidents greatly
influencing the physical, mental, and emotional well-being of the woman,
is Nature's final word to the woman that she is the active pole of
sex-life. As the above-quoted writer has said: "Altogether it cannot be
denied that woman is much more a slave of her sex-nature than man is of
his. Nature has handicapped woman much more heavily than she has man."
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