This lack of knowledge explains to a certain extent why so many are
unwilling to perform household work. It is natural to dislike work
that brings failure, to enjoy what brings success. The average girl
who “hates to sew” and “hates to do housework” would often find
pleasure in both did she but have systematic knowledge concerning the
work. The city boarding-house, crowded with women who “can’t endure
housekeeping,” is one product of this combination of ignorance and
aversion. In New York City there are said to be but thirteen thousand
families in individual houses. The rest of the population are crowded
into tenements, rookeries, boarding-houses, flats, and hotels.
But there are other reasons besides ignorance that explain this
aversion to household work. There is a well-founded belief that the
majority of women dislike both manual labor and self-supporting
labor, and this fact applies both to housekeeper and to housemaid. We
have passed the stage when it is permitted a man to say, “The world
owes me a living.” We not only allow a woman to say this in effect,
but we sometimes praise her for her womanliness in saying it. How
often one hears the remark, “Her father has abundant means, it is
unnecessary for her to support herself.” The average woman without
family cares is self-supporting because dire necessity compels, not
because honorable work is the birthright inheritance of every human
being. Again, the mistress of the household constantly speaks of the
routine work of the house as drudgery, and the houseworker, whose
chief interest in it is one of dollars and cents, coins a still
harsher term, and calls work a curse.
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