Still another hindrance is the tone of certainty and finality that
characterizes all discussions concerning the household. It is a part
of the religious belief of many persons that every woman has been
foreordained by Providence to be a wife, mother, and housekeeper,
and that any deviation from this fundamental law is an infringement
on the designs of Providence. But some of us remember that scarcely
more than fifty years ago Daniel Webster said in the United States
Senate that slavery had been excluded from California and New Mexico
by the law of nature, of physical geography, the law of the formation
of the earth, and that he would not through the Wilmot Proviso take
pains uselessly to reaffirm an ordinance of nature or to reënact
the will of God. Many apparently believe, through the same specious
reasoning, that to provide instruction in household affairs would be
in a similar way to reaffirm an ordinance of nature.
Not only does this tone of finality characterize the household
when it is assumed that because the majority of women will always
choose to be housekeepers, therefore all women must be housekeepers,
but the same tone of finality also characterizes methods in the
household. It is interesting to read to-day the objections raised
fifty years ago to the use of anesthetics in surgery; it was argued
that since pain was sent by heaven, it was sacrilegious to use any
means of alleviating it. It may be of equal interest fifty years
hence to read the protests of our contemporaries against the present
effort to combat instinct with science.
Another difficulty is the inherent proneness of Americans to look for
results before establishing the conditions on which alone results are
to be based. The nervous haste that characterizes us physically as a
nation also characterizes us mentally. We seize eagerly suggestions
and scorn the slow processes through which alone suggestions can
be made realities; then comes the inevitable reaction and we drift
into the fatalistic tendency to put up with evils rather than fight
against them.
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