The party constituting the Liberal-Alliance, which was in power, and
organized the ministry at the sitting of the Ordinary Session of the
National Congress in June, 1904, in outlining a programme for the
party, declared itself in favor of a law that would prohibit the church
from celebrating marriages, without the presentation of a certificate
attesting the fact that the marriage had been previously celebrated
before a Civil Registrar. The Conservative party in Congress announced
through its leaders its intention to vigorously oppose the measure,
showing that there is still a political element in Chile in favor of
empowering the church with authority to legalize marriages.
In discussing this phase of social life, reference is made to the
common people of the country, and not to the rich and educated few,
where wealth, family connections, or social position may enter into and
influence the question of matrimonial alliances, and among whom wedding
ceremonies are conducted much as they are in other civilized countries.
Courtship is short; there are no long years of waiting. Once the
question is decided the matter is consummated and all doubts as to
congeniality or advisability are left for future consideration.
The custom of courtship is the same as that prevailing in other
Spanish-American countries. It consists more in impassioned glances,
smiles and actions on the part of the participants to attract each
other than in conversation or a discussion of mutual interests.
Sometimes the proposition is made and accepted after the first
meeting, and not infrequently it is arranged by the families of the
interested parties. Whether the majority of marriages in Chile are
contracted from motives of affection, passion, or material interests
is difficult to determine. There would seem to be little love in the
motive that inspires, for among the poorer classes the object appears
to be mutual care, service and protection. During religious festivals,
where men and women are brought into close relationship and intimate
association, under the influence of liquor, marriages are generally
arranged, proposals accepted, and bans simultaneously published by the
contracting parties and the priests. Their past lives have been more or
less the same and there are no sacrifices on the part of either. There
is no demonstration to make the event conspicuous; what to expect and
how to meet it are conditions well known to both. There is no foolish
sentiment exhibited. The wedding is consummated and celebrated because
it is mutually convenient. Their standards of honor, honesty, fidelity
and veracity are about equal. Should either of the contracting parties
hesitate or refuse to comply with the agreement, he or she, as the case
may be, is accused before the priest of the parish church, who commands
the delinquent to respond, and the marriage is celebrated at once.
Protests are in vain, the marriage contract once having been announced,
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