like the sentence in court, must be carried out, under ecclesiastical
authority. Illegitimacy among the poor of Chile is no disgrace, and
is not a bar, or even a disadvantage when it comes to the question of
marriage. Children born to women previous to marriage are treated by
the husband upon terms of equality with those of the legal union. An
examination of the baptismal record of the churches in the country
districts will reveal the fact that a large per cent. of the children
are inscribed as “El padre desconocido” (the father is unknown).
Be it said to the credit of the women in the sub-stratum, as well as
in the upper-crust of Chilean society, that, as a rule, they respect
their marriage vows. With the men it is the rare exception instead
of the rule. After marriage, people of the common class resume their
accustomed life and habits, living as a rule under the paternal
or maternal roof of one or the other. The man is not necessarily
expected to contribute to the support of his wife, the custom being
for that member of the family to provide maintenance for the pair, and
invariably to support herself. They seem to enjoy a careless, bohemian
sort of contentment that meets the requirements of their simple lives.
Little is expected, each seems entirely satisfied with the acts of
the other and the stream of domestic harmony runs on uninterruptedly.
Such is life among these simple folk, who mate as do the birds, and
with whom mutual interests, simplicity and natural instincts are the
controlling influences in matrimonial alliances.
An inventory of all property possessed by each of the contracting
parties at the date of the wedding is carefully taken. It may be a
horse, a cow, pig, fowls, a bed, or other articles. This property
does not enter into the marriage contract and become a part of the
common fund. On the wedding day the bride and groom are accompanied
to the church by friends and neighbors, usually on horseback. There
is singing and music of guitars, firing of shooting crackers and guns
and other demonstrations. There is frequent drinking to the health of
the couple, with “viva los novios.” Anyone who desires may participate
in the wedding feast, as all refreshments are disposed of at a price.
The profits on the feast are given to the bride as a wedding gift.
These celebrations sometimes last three or four days and nights,
with drinking, singing and dancing. Among the middle classes wedding
ceremonies are the same, except that invitations are not quite so
general. And among the more prosperous of the middle classes, the
refreshments served at the wedding feasts are free.
A married woman never goes by the name of her husband. If Señorita
Carmen Valenzuela is married to Don Jacinto Nuñez, she is afterwards
Señora Carmen Valenzuela de N; if she becomes a widow she retains the
foregoing name with the addition of the letter V before the de N,
meaning widow of Nuñez.
BIRTHS AND DEATHS
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