One morning he called on me, announcing coolly that he had decided to
shoot me. I invited him to sit down and discuss his plans more fully
before carrying them out, and also to mention some of his reasons for
that somewhat radical decision.
He explained to me, with his right hand annoyingly buried in his
coat pocket, that he had been in love for a few weeks, with a very
attractive girl. Recently, he had noticed something in her profile
which distantly resembled a pig's snout. The night before, while he
was in her company, he suddenly saw her head transformed into a pig's
head. He fled from her rooms in terror and disgust and, attributing his
"clear insight into her true nature" to my psychoanalytic teachings,
had decided to save others from my baneful influence by killing me.
As is usually the case with maniacs, a quiet conversation cast doubts
in his mind. I told him that I did not approve of his plans which
might, however, be excellent, but that, as I was really a biased
adviser in that matter, he should discuss them with an impartial third
party. He then decided to call on Dr. Everett Dean Martin who advised
him to take a rest cure and escorted him to Bellevue Hospital.
The poor boy's transfer to the State Asylum has put an end to his
search for the ideal love. That search was a disguised flight from
women and love, his delusion was an effective measure of protection
against temptation.
Nothing but the absolute could satisfy him in a woman. Relativity was
abhorrent to him.
Every seeker for the ideal love has gone a few steps along the road
which led my poor patient into the house of the living dead.
=Higher Aspirations.= Neurotics of that type are plausible for they
compensate for their fear and their inferiority with a pride based upon
"higher aspirations," "greater delicacy of feelings," "an aristocratic
nature" or the tell-tale statement that "their mother's beautiful
character," "their father's noble nature" makes every man or woman
appear very inferior in their eyes.
Proud of certain characteristics of theirs which they cannot help
having, they childishly display an egotism and selfishness which makes
them at times very ridiculous, for it says indirectly: "Nobody is
quite good enough for me."
When the search for ideal love results in nervous states due to
egotistical starvation, psychoanalysis can help greatly by giving the
neurotic insight into the fear of life or the parent-fixation which is
at the bottom of his romantic aspirations.
CHAPTER XXVIII
THE NEW WOMAN AND LOVE
How will love fare at the hands of the new woman? The old forms of
love will naturally be as unbearable to her as the steel corsets of a
forgotten generation. Yet the problem is not so very pressing, for the
truly new woman is still an almost insignificant factor, numerically
speaking, in every community.
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