The modern woman, conversant with the facts of sex, and no longer
having to create an artificial value for her body based on disregard
of biological facts, since her activities, mental and physical, now
command a definite price on the market place, seeks a partner with whom
she will exchange caresses leading, as she recognises without silly
shame, to mutual gratification.
=The Pursuit.= The old-fashioned woman, who always assumed the
passive role in life and who, supposedly indifferent to the pleasures
of the flesh, ran away, actually or figuratively, from the brutal
pursuer, played a preposterous dual part in the pre-love skirmishes.
Who has never encountered the woman who wears in a public place some
dress which reveals a great deal of her bust, and yet who pretends to
be offended if some man stares at what she has exposed in order to
attract his stare?
The modern woman whose worth is determined, not by the male's
eroticism in her presence, but by her accomplishments, can afford to be
frank, honest, if not, at times, aggressive, in the love search.
=The Passing of Respectable Prostitution.= The old-fashioned woman,
having created the artificial value of womanhood as such, indulged in
a mild, genteel form of prostitution, which, having no consequences
likely to impose a burden on the community, (pregnancy, childbirth)
never was criticised very severely. She sold her company for meals,
theatre tickets, comfortable transportation, flowers, trinkets. Now and
then, developing a streak of fairness and honesty, she would grant the
man she exploited small privileges of a superficial kind. But the real
old-fashioned girl was of the absolutely sordid type, who could allow a
more or less repellent suitor to spend considerable sums to amuse her
but would express genuine indignation at the thought that the man could
be as sordid as she was, and expect some caresses in return.
The modern woman, made independent financially by her non-sexual
activities, can remove from her love all taint of even mild
commercialism, returning favors in kind, or accepting presents, no
longer as a bribe, but as a token of affection on the part of a man she
loves.
=The Abettor of Ethical Sins.= The old fashioned wife was in many more
cases than superficial thinking would cause us to imagine, a more
dangerous corrupter of public and private morality than the prostitute.
Numerically the wife predominates. The prostitute constitutes a very
small minority of the population of large cities and does not thrive in
small town, villages or farming communities.
Louis Berman, who is generally very indifferent to psychology, makes a
very valuable remark in his book on glands: "Consider," he writes, "the
unimportance of a collective purpose to the woman whose career is the
mate and then the mate's career."
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