"=There is, However, a Rebellion against Nature= in the matter of
the very unequal share of the burden of reproduction which falls to
men and women in civilized communities. I say civilized communities
advisedly, because the extremely artificial life of the modern lady
has the effect of making her natural functions pathological. Whether
the rebellion has been going on ever since ladies were invented I do
not know, because history is silent on the subject, as it is on so
many specifically feminine subjects. But I can testify that among
women brought up amid the feminist movement of the second half of the
nineteenth century there was a revolt against maternity which went
deeper than that revolt against excessive maternity which has led
to birth control. These more thoroughgoing rebels objected to the
whole process, from the occasional event itself to the more permanent
conditions it imposes. It is easy to dismiss this as monstrous and
silly, but the modern conception of creative evolution forbids us to
dismiss any development as impossible if it becomes the subject of an
aspiration.
"There is no limit to the truth of the old saying that where there is a
will there is a way, and though for the moment a refusal to accept the
existing conditions of reproduction would mean race suicide, the rebels
against nature may be the pioneers of evolutionary changes which may
finally dispose of the less pleasant incidents of nutrition, and make
reproduction a process external to the parents in its more burdensome
phases, as it now is in many existent species."
=The Entrance of Woman into Commercial Life= has trained her no longer
to expect something for nothing (exchangeable) and to realize that a
bargain, to be satisfactory, an agreement, to be lasting, must be based
on mutual advantages to both parties.
Love, with the old fashioned, began with a struggle of wits between the
sexes, the man trying to conquer without granting any advantages to the
defeated, woman trying to wear out her opponent and make him yield more
and more advantages before she finally "paid up."
On one side, fear of financial burdens, at the other end, fear of
desertion and pregnancy, suspicion and cruelty.
The sex struggle with its disgusting features of hypocrisy, pretence,
duplicity, misrepresentation, denial of biological facts, etc., has
yielded to an agreement, much as the robber system of past ages has
been replaced by commercial transactions which leave no hatred and no
desire for vengeance in their wake.
=Was It a Sacrifice?= The old-fashioned woman, wife or mistress,
assuming the position of the conquered and defeated, claimed infinite
privileges as an offset to what she has "given up," "sacrificed,"
"yielded." She humiliated her conqueror by pretending that
his body or his caresses were not the equal of hers, and that she only
submitted to his desire, without much pleasure, compelled by his "low
instincts."
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