=Most Common Fetishes.= Women's hair, throat, neck, shoulders,
arms and breasts seem to be the most frequently mentioned fetishes.
Fashion and the law recognise that fact. Whenever women plan to make
a physical appeal to men or women, they dress their hair with special
care and they wear low neck gowns, thereby exhibiting those various
fetishes.
It will be noticed that the parts of the body constituting the most
widely appreciated fetishes are those with which the nursing child
comes in most intimate and continuous contact.
To the child, they mean safety, comfort, caresses, food. The color
of skin or hair, the shape of neck, head and shoulders on which
his glances rest while nursing or while being carried about by the
mother, are the only ones which will appear "natural" and safe, hence
beautiful, to him in after life.
The breasts from which he derives a perfect food, at the right
temperature, which flows easily into his stomach and is assimilated
without effort, the breasts, whose texture and elasticity make them
pleasant to lean upon while nursing, may eventually become to his
simple mind the most valuable part of the female's body.
=The Breast and the Bottle.= My observations on several hundred
men fed at the breast or on the bottle in infancy, have revealed to me
that practically all the men nursed by a woman were greatly attracted
to women with well developed breasts.
The majority of men nursed on the bottle, on the other hand, preferred
thin, boyish looking girls, some of them even expressing a distinct
repugnance for rather buxom women.
It may be stated that of the few who did not confirm that rule there
were several more or less neurotic individuals, whom an unconscious
fear of incest (see Chapter V) had conditioned to fear the very type of
women by whom they had been nursed.
Arms and hands, which to the nursling mean protection, service,
caresses, transportation, etc., derive therefrom their great attraction
as fetishes.
=Feminine Fetishes.= I have thus far mentioned almost exclusively
fetishes from the female body. There are several reasons why feminine
fetishes are far more important to both men and women than masculine
fetishes. Children of both sexes are exposed to the influence of
the mother's fetishes more intimately, more constantly and more
"profitably" (nursing), than they are to the influence of the father's
fetishes.
Hence masculine fetishes are fewer and less numerous. Woman is less of
a fetishist than man. The most frequently mentioned masculine fetishes
are the bodily attributes characteristic of strength, and which, hence,
would afford most protection to the infant and the female.
No perverse fetishism is observed in women, no abnormal craving driving
women into securing unlawfully men's hair or clothing, etc.
Some writers consider transvestite women, women who enjoy masquerading
in men's clothes, as clothing fetishists, but such cases are extremely
rare and can be accounted for in other ways.
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