Some children, on the other hand, never seem to free themselves from
the parent of the opposite sex. They are technically designated as the
victims of a mother fixation in the case of boys, of a father fixation
in the case of girls.
=Jung's Interpretation.= Jung, head of the Swiss school of
psychoanalysis, considers the Oedipus complication from a broader
point of view. To him the father and mother are not real persons, but
more or less symbolic and distorted figures created by the imagination
of the child. The yearning of the child for its mother, its jealousy
toward the father are simply due to its desire to monopolise a perfect
provider and protector.
=Pseudo-Incest.= To Adler of Vienna, the Oedipus complex is a
fiction created unconsciously by the neurotic who is trying to fall
back on the father or mother for support. The boy, afraid of life and
of the responsibilities imposed upon a man by a normal sexual life, is
naturally inclined to cling fondly to his mother, from whom he receives
a love and adoration which need not be won or paid for or reciprocated
and which in their demonstrativeness only stop short of sexual
gratification.
The neurotic girl dreams of monopolising the father's affection and
financial support which are not to be repaid by sexual intercourse with
its consequences, etc.
Freud's interpretation explains certain details of behavior in boys
with a mother fixation but the yearning to return to the mother's body
does not explain a father fixation in a woman.
On the other hand, Jung's explanation fails to account for some of the
grossly sexual details in the behavior of the fixation child, such as
great curiosity directed toward the parent of the opposite sex, at
times, even, attempts on the part of a boy to possess the mother in her
sleep, etc.
=The Neurotic Life Plan.= Adler has clearly seen that the Oedipus
situation is not the cause, but merely one of the details of the
neurotic life plan. A human being adopts that plan because, owing to
some inferiority, real or imaginary, (real to him), he feels unable
to compete with other human beings on a footing of equality. The
neurosis supplies him with a short cut to power along the line of least
effort. That short cut is selfish, unsocial and, hence, productive of
unpleasant results. The mother-fixation man, the father-fixation woman
shirk their biological duties, thereby leading an easier, cheaper,
self-centered life which, in the end, vouchsafes them no real positive
gratification.
What Adler has left unexplained is how the parent fixation establishes
itself in the neurotic.
=Imitation.= The Oedipus situation is simply one of the consequences of
the imitation by the child of the parent of the opposite sex.
Imitation plays a tremendous part in human life and, as far as behavior
is concerned, is an infinitely more powerful factor than heredity.
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