Also, contact facilitates the electrical exchanges between human
beings, especially between male and female, exchanges which owing to
the removal of organic inhibitions, must be singularly powerful between
lovers.
=Holding Hands.= Whenever conditions separate their bodies, lovers
generally revert to the childish practice of holding hands, which to
the child meant an assurance of safety when led by the strong parents
and also facilitated electrical exchanges of distinct value to the
young and old alike.
=The Kiss.= This brings us to the consideration of a love
manifestation in which sensations of a tactile, gustatory and olfactory
character are combined: the kiss.
The kiss, curiously enough, is found both in certain animal and human
races but not in all human races.
Many mammals, birds and insects exchange caresses which remind one of
the human kiss. "Love birds" seem to spend much of their time kissing
each other.
On the other hand, Eastern races do not seem to relish the caress which
Western peoples call a kiss. In China a form of affectionate greeting
corresponding to our kiss consists in rubbing one's nose against the
cheek of the other person after which a deep breath is taken thru the
nose with the eyes half-shut.
In some primitive races the equivalent for our "kiss me" is "smell me."
In other races, the kiss is a manifestation of respect rather than a
proof of love. Anglo Saxons on certain occasions kiss the Bible. In the
early Christian and Arab civilisations, the kiss was a ritual gesture
and has remained so in certain Catholic customs: kissing the pope's
foot, relics, a bishop's ring, etc.
In certain races, kissing is a proof of affection but not of love.
Japanese mothers kiss their children but Japanese lovers do not
exchange caresses of the lips, according to Lafcadio Hearn.
The dark races of Africa are ignorant of that caress and so are the
Malays, the aborigines of Australia and many other primitive tribes.
=The Birth of the Kiss.= It appears that even among the kissing races,
the kiss is a relatively recent development. It is rarely mentioned in
Greek literature. In the Middle Ages it was a sign of refinement, being
almost unknown among the lower classes.
Some analysts have come to the conclusion that the kissing habit is
derived from sucking the mother's nipple.
If this was the proper explanation, all the races would naturally
indulge in it.
The kiss is infinitely more complicated than that. The Freudian
explanation should not be discarded entirely but it does not explain
everything.
The kiss has grown in importance with the restrictions placed by
civilisation on sexual activities. The more primitive the races, the
more promiscuous they are and the less they kiss.
The kiss seems to have become among the more repressed and advanced
races a displacement upward of the act of possession, a sublimation of
intercourse. It is, next to sexual union, the closest contact which the
male and female may attain.
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